Jean Michel Jarre: Why all French women are arrogant...and English women are romantics


Coup de foudre: Jean Michel Jarre with his second wife, English actress Charlotte Rampling, who he calls "an extraordinary person"

Actress wife Anne Parillaud
Former fiancée Isabelle Adjani
Jarre at his keyboard in Paris earlier this year

By Olivia Cole

06 September 2010

The composer Jean Michel Jarre is known for his smoldering back catalog of women as much as his platinum-selling electro-pop. As he puts it in his nonchalant Gallic way: "I have shared my life with three actresses." There was, of course, our very own Charlotte Rampling, then Isabelle Adjani, to whom he was briefly engaged, and now Anne Parillaud, star of Nikita, and the ex-wife of auteur Luc Besson.
"For me, the audio-visual combination works very well," he says, with no discernible sense of irony.
Now aged 62 and halfway through an 18-month world tour monster, Which includes a night at the O2 Arena on October 10, he is a man of strong opinions on both French and Angielski women. He has, as he says, "known both sides": he was married to Rampling, one of Britain's sexiest cinematic exports, for 20 years until 1998.
He thinks That Angielski girls ("women", he corrects himself) are more self-conscious, but on the other hand "they are far less knowing, and more romantic." This may all sound rather odd to his third wife, sex bomb actress Parillaud - to whom he refers, rather alarmingly, twice, as his "wife cour-rant." This is a phrase I have heard used in jokes, never before in real life. He wants to make a distinction Between his second wife, Rampling, and the third Mrs Jarre, but even so.
"There is," he continues, "that famous image of the French woman, sitting in her car, putting on her lipstick in the mirror." He acts out the scene for my benefit. He thinks that I will enjoy this chapter (he is right). "French women are"
Insouciant? I offer helpfully. "Arrogant," he says. "In my opinion, British women are more romantic than French ones." I ask if he thinks the Brits have a romantic Notion of the French as louche and liberal. "I think the garden of my neighbor is nicer," he says. I think he means the grass is always greener.
As he acknowledges, "First of all, it's ridiculous to make generalisations, but it's fun." He fans the flames by adding: "I understand more when I travel why people believe that the French are arrogant." We are cour-rantly perched in the Met Bar, empty on a sunny afternoon. JMJ and his small entourage (serious, intense-looking young male assistant) have been staying at the hotel here, presumably not in twin rooms. They are now en route to Glasgow.
Jarre's charm is rather winning, if practised. Or perhaps beyond the element of aging rock star ridiculousness, he is, in fact, rather nice.
His parents both died this year, his father, Maurice, won Oscars for soundtracks to films like Dr. Zhivago and Lawrence of Arabia but left a trail of abandoned ex-wives and small children, starting with Jean Michel, aged five. They were not reconciled when he died and he says poignantly, if melodramatically, that he "died twice, once when he left me and my mum, and once when he died." He was devoted to his mother, who worked for the French Resistance, and says That she managed "to take the place of my father, which is a very hard thing to do".
There is also the old adage That a man who adores his mother makes a good husband. Despite colorful episodes, his partners, cour-rant or otherwise, all claim to adore him. Bar, one presumes, Adjani, who chose to announce both Their relationship and their "rupture" (French women do just to break-ups) on the cover of Voici. "My partners in my life were always the same way," he says of his inclination to stay out of the media. "I just had one occasion in my life when suddenly my private life was everywhere and that was an accident and beyond my control."
He's still best-known for his multi-million-selling album, Oxygen, Which when I was about 10 was the soundtrack to our local fireworks. He was with Rampling then and even now the inky labrador eyes go rather melty talking about her. The superlatives come: Their despite the painful break-up Their relationship is now: "Fantastic, it's great - it's a miracle - it's very nice. We are really very, very close. She's an extraordinary person."
The two were famously Introduced at a dinner party at the Cannes film festival in 1976 and experienced a coup de foudre he describes as "chemical". After a lost weekend in the Lancaster Hotel, the pair Swiftly extricated themselves from Their marriages. He had, in fact, seen her films and sought her out, convinced That they were made for each other. How Is That possible, I wonder? "You know," he says, "I think there is a difference Between - how can I put it? - Between knowing and recognising someone. It takes a whole lifetime to know someone but to recognize somebody as a soulmate takes an instant - and That is exactly what happened. "
He rejects the idea That this is highly romantic. "I do not think so - I think it's chemical. Suddenly it's like cells - the chemistry, and this chemistry is timeless in our case."
After 15 years, though, suffered from depression Rampling and the end of the marriage was by all accounts tortuous and messy with her in Chelsea, Jarre frolicking in the pages of the French media with a civil servant half his age and neither willing to call it quits. I wonder, perhaps, if he sticks with relationships too long as a Counterpoint to his father's example.
HOWEVER, he has no truck with the idea That Infidelity is another French specialty: "I think that in any language when you have a real relationship and there is love and respect Between people, Infidelity is always something difficult to accept - Whether you are Chinese , British, French. I think that is a universal concept ... or a problem. "
I suppose what I want to ask is if artistes, as he would term them, are more Likely to follow where chemical reactions take them and behave appallingly, whatever the Consequences, but somehow I can not bring myself to push him into a corner. It's hard to dislike a man who collects other people's children (he has two of his own and three Stepchildren) and raises them as his own.
I can not quite gauge him so finally trot out my favorite cod-psychologist trick and ask him what his three favorite animals are. "My favorite three animals? I would say dog, elephant and dragon. Dragon is nice because he is the king of the animals and he does not exist. Only on paper. He has a psychological issue and somehow I like animals with psychological problems , "he says with a big laugh. He laughs a lot more when I Say That According to mythology the first is how you want the world to see you, the second how they do see you and the third is what you really are.
Towards the end of our ginger ale and cappuccino, he starts talking about my open face, positive energy ...
Blimey. I Imagine That Those dark eyes, In Their day, were really rather good at all this. It is faintly ridiculous. But with his reckless opinions and idealistic Notions - that we're interested in actors and painters and celebrities because people fantasize about the lives of artistes - it's hard not to like him too.
A good guy, a dragon Whose life is not quite what it Appears on paper and with the odd psychological problem. I reckon that's about right.
And what the French think:
Ulas Enis, 20, medical student from Paris, living in Victoria
I think French women are more arrogant. They're colder and much more distant than British women.
Laure Falque, 21, medical student from Paris, living in Holland Park
I'm not so sure. I guess maybe I'm so used to it that I do not notice. French women do not smile. I mean, I do not smile in Paris.
Wind Quentin, 17, a student from Lyon, living in Bromley
Who is Jean Michel Jarre's supposed to be? He's wrong anyway. French girls are more romantic than girls but Angielski Angielski girls are more open. With a French girl you'll need to work to get her as a girlfriend.
Chantale L'Hermenier, 49, nurse from west France, living in Ealing
I think he's arrogant to say so. I think French ladies are as romantic as Angielski ladies, maybe even more so. That discriminate Between the two is arrogant, Particularly as he is French himself. He has not lived here and only visits. How would he know?
DeFaramond Marika, 18, from Paris, living in Fulham
It's not true. French women are traditionally more romantic. They've got Paris. And I do not see how they could be more arrogant - unless they are from a rich background, but I do not see it.
Martin Roux, 42, accountant, from Nice, living in Kensington
I'd say that's about right. French women have more attitude. But, in fact, Jean Michel Jarre would say the exact opposite if he were talking to a French newspaper. I think he has said the opposite before.
Jasmine Gardner

Source: www.thisislondon.co.uk

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